My son is leaving for Italy this June… right after graduation…. Lately being an American woman … an american anything…has been both a source of pride… and … well lets just say we will get this all sorted out.
But the Infamous
Light and Shade Challenge
… who I used to mostly respond with fiction short stories to their prompts… but I find reality needing so much more attention these days… have prompted my gypsy soul…. that travels the world… which apparently I have given my Small … a taste of Italy.
Image from WikiCommons, taken by Andrea Pavenello and used under the Creative Commons Agreement
Yes.. I realize this is a bit of a stretch with this image… but it is what it sparked in my mind… and this is my blog… so we are going with it
Eat a Light dinner….Buy natural… fresh foods–preferably organic. Italians frequent local farmers’ markets every week and buy breads at bakeries,… fish and fish mongers and meat at butchers. Or… better yet… learn to grow your own food… Sure… they have supermarkets… but on regular occasion… food is purchased fresh for use the same day…. Dinner is about celebrating a day of hard work…. and family…. Italians respect their elders much more than Americans. They also dote on their children and consider them as the most precious things in their lives… Slow Down and Stop Rushing… Most of the time we do not take a lunch break… or eat on the run during the day… Dinner can be an all night event… talk… drink… be merry…. and enjoy your time… Americans drink far more wine and hard liquor than Italians do… even though most Italians will have wine and occasional cocktails…. The difference is they drink wine with meals for the taste–not to forget the stresses of the day… Italians will also have a small aperitif before a meal… Drink for the taste and with meals to drink like an Italian… Embrace people… The Italian hug and kiss. Old men walk arm in arm–women do too… Even men embrace and kiss each other on the cheek… We are way too distant from each other… Hugging a friend to show how glad you are to see them is a great thing… Don’t let a day go by without touching another human being… and animal… pets count! Take a walk with your family or friends. Each night in every town in Italy, Italians get out after dinner to walk in the piazza or the main viale (boulevard). They call it the passeggiata It’s a time to relax and digest… Meet and visit neighbors… relatives and friends… It’s also a time to shut off the TV and just be still for a moment. Finally…. Learn to live with less…Smaller houses and apartments and smaller cars… That is the Italian way… oh and PIZZA!
Tell us about the last time you dressed up.
When I quit my job over a year ago … I threw out anything and everything that I had forced myself to wear and be to fit into the mold I had gotten myself trapped in… and then Magic happened… Yes I am 43…. Yes I wear this tomfoolery to the new office… Its kinda magic.
Soooo I have a bit of a love affair with my clothes – Meet my Totoro collection
This fancy ensemble was my second Alice In Wonderland dress…. and man did I ever rock it!
May the 4th with my HUGE Small.
Oh! a Tardis Dress? Yes please! annnnnd if you look close at the weird position of my feet for picture taking reasons…. those are R2D2 socks
My first and FAVORITE Alice in Wonderland Dress – This one I need to have taken in… Im not willing to let it go… even though it is too big now
My Homemade Freddy Krueger outfit… I was going to meet him! It was a special occasion! Look at his MOOBS!
See! This happened!
A little Jack Skellington at the Symphony… As you can see I was not the only one dressed up
This was my actual Halloween costume for the office… I dressed up normal. It made everyone uncomfortable actually.
I leave you to be inspired by these Ariel shoes… because like the shirt says… Mermaids have more fun!
Never deprive someone of hope — it may be all they have
First and foremost… if you’re feeling hopeless… I want you to close this page…
I know that things will get better for you… I also know that a big part of that will depend on you choosing for things to be different.
But when lost in the rabbit hole of hopelessness…. it can be really hard to make that choice for yourself…. So save this read for when you have found your hope again.
I don’t know what it was … a divorce.. a death … a hormonal shift in the balance of the force…..
But I encourage you to cry the good cry … Listen to some music… Go for a walk… Meditate…. be kind to yourself … if you’ve had hope before… you can feel hopeful again.
And when you do… I want you to ditch it as soon as possible.
Yes… I’m calling bullshit on some kinds of hope at this point in our lives
I once heard a quote that was something like this…. “Hope is the most poetic form of self-abuse.”
Decide now that you’re going to stop hoping…. hoping your soulmate will show up… hoping the bills get paid… hoping you lose weight… hoping that Carrie Fischer doesn’t die before she finishes filming the Star Wars movies (okay… I totally hoped for that one)
Start knowing that you are going to work to get what you want… or its equivalent… or something even better.
When it is beyond your control? (Star Wars) do what you can that is in your control…. Hug your mom extra tight today… or your daughter… Take care of yourself…. stand up and talk about mental health issues…. etc.
Hoping for things to change is a pretty sounding way of staying right where you are.
I know we have the power to change things… Bigger than us… But it has to be done when we have hope… So everyone can give hope to the hopeless..,. because we do not need it… we are going to rise.
Another Epiphany on life brought to you by my favorite writing prompts!
The Light and Shade Challenge
Image from WikiCommons, taken by Richard Webb and used under the Creative Commons Agreement
As in a dream… a bridge in waking life can be a point of connection
One must ask –
What the bridge is connecting and what it is crossing… What is on the other side?
What is under the bridge? A river of emotions… Railroad tracks may to a better place…. A chasm is something that is missing or undefinable… or something that you have overcome or given up?
A Bridge represents making a connection… if you are afraid to cross the bridge if you are unsure of the future or whatever lies on the other side…. If you are crossing the bridge without fear than you are ready to face whatever the future holds in store If you are standing on the bridge…. may it be offering you the support you need to deal with life and love (and whatever lies below). If you have crossed the bridge or are looking back over the bridge … may you have patience for the rest of us still catching up.
Let’s not be afraid falling off a bridge … fear of failure …or unsure you can make it to the other side …You may be afraid of making a connection with someone… you may be afraid of the obstacles in front of you… or you may be afraid of the changes that you are going through…. But life is not going to wait for you … cross the bridge… your feelings will catch up later.
Even a broken bridge or a bridge that is uncrossable…. needs to be fixed before you can move on.
Bridging The Gap.
Don’t Cross That Bridge Until You Come To It.
That’s Water Under The Bridge.
Like a Bridge Over Troubled Waters.
This is 2017.
This Bridge Rant was inspired by some of my favorite people from across the pond… and as always gave me much reflection and perspective into my writer’s mind. I missed them so much! Thank you for the prompt!!
The Light and Shade Challenge
Mr Amazing and Small Child would be repulsed by my lack of scientific knowledge or basis for my claim made in the title of this blog… but they will never be in danger of falling in stated Worm Hole because that would require reading my blog… and honestly they have to listen to me talk… so they’ve done more than enough.
1. Share your 2017 New Year Resolution. How did last year’s turn out?
You know what? I’m an overachiever … I mean I am really the type of woman that likes to go above and beyond the call of duty…. Not to float my own boat or anything but I am going to take two of the writers prompts this week… because I am just sitting here waiting to be discovered and recognized for my many unusual talents… word twisting being one of them… So here is your bonus prompt.
6. What were you blogging about a year ago? What has changed since then?
It does not take a rocket scientist to figure out that possibly last year at this time I was writing about Resolutions…. and here is the beginning of the Wormhole Time Continuum Tear in the Dark Matter of my life… Clicking HERE will open another window where you can read what I was writing about resolutions last year at this time… where in said writings you will be invited yet again to click somewhere to preview the previous years writings…. and so forth.
Maybe the root of my Dark Matter is the fact that I am old… and have had the luxury of vomiting my thoughts into this keyboard for many moons…. or we could go with the Worm Hole theory… because it sounds nicer.
My 2016 Resolution was to pursue that which sets my soul on fire.
And did I ever. I painted for an entire year. I finally gave up the nicotine gum. I lost 60lbs. I exercised more than other years… okay I played pokemon go…. I travelled to a new state and spent time with some life longers while celebrating our 5th anniversary as Mr and Mrs Amazing and the Smalls (It’s a circus act really)… I worked hard… I took time for myself. I had yet another (and final from angel girl) grandchild… and guess what! Its a girl! a breathing… smiling… beautiful doppelganger of my Angel Girl. (for those that don’t remember her first girl)
So if I were to suggest my plans for the next year were to do more of the same… I’d just be cursing myself to do the exact opposite… because seriously… that is what I tend to do…. I do not know if it is self sabotage or self preservation… but I do know this… I am going to do whatever it is that causes my soul to dance inside my body… I am going to be kind… I am going to believe that there is good in everything… Even our current political situation… because I saw people as I volunteered at a local shelter this holiday season … I saw them give more than ever before… because they were afraid that it was needed more than ever before… and even if that is all the positive that comes out of our current President Elect…. it is still positive.
So in keeping with Tradition of very vague resolutions to ensure successful achievement I choose to do this!
So much love and light to you and yours in this year 2017!
This is one year ago… almost to the day
This is earlier this month… The level of Soul Fire is obvious.